Before heading off to college, you will get a lot of advice from family members, friends, social media and about a million websites. Everyone wants to help prepare you for college life and being away from home.
Maria Devoto, a sophomore Chemical Engineering major from Easton, Conn., weighs in as she has one year of the “TU Life” under her belt. Here is her advice for the incoming Class of 2019!
1. Get off campus when you can! TU has a beautiful campus and there are always dozens of things going on. It can be easy to spend all your time there. However, I seriously recommend spending some time off campus, at least once every week or two. The city of Tulsa has so much to offer, so even if you’re just heading down the road to 918 for a coffee, make the trip. And be sure to check out the Tulsa State Fair! I’ll never forget the rodeo I saw there.
2. Try something new. This may be the most repeated advice ever, but that’s because it couldn’t be any more important. In high school, I participated in the same sports and clubs as my friends, mostly because they were involved or because it was something I’d been doing since I was five years old. At TU, no club or sport or organization is better than the next, and when in doubt, if something sounds even just mildly interesting, join it. Even if you don’t stick with it all four years, you’ll meet new people and learn new things about yourself.
3. Keep saying, “Hi! Where are you from? What’s your major?” You will say that phrase approximately 8,000,000 times during orientation week and the first month of school. I got so sick of people saying, “Oh, you’re from Connecticut?” and having to explain why I traveled halfway across the country for college. No matter how tedious the basic questions get, keep asking them to people – ask the girl you run into in the bathroom, the kid behind you in the cafeteria line, the person you sit next to in Calc 1. It’s one of the best ways to meet new people, and even if you get tired of answering those questions, you won’t get tired of hearing the answers.
4. Use a planner. Being organized is so, so, SO important in college. You don’t want to miss a deadline, and having a planner helps so much with budgeting your time. Maybe you didn’t use a planner in high school, but you will have so much more work in college, and a lot more freedom. Having a planner will help so much with keeping you organized.
5. Go to sporting events! TU is the smallest Division 1 football school so take advantage of that! In high school, I went to maybe one football game, but in college, I attended every football game, most of the basketball games, and also some softball and soccer games and tennis matches. It is so much fun to watch our teams play, especially when you know some of the players!
6. Keep your door open. If you’re living in a residence hall, keep your door open. It’s a great way to meet people. During move-in day, my first-semester roommate and I walked down the hall and talked to every girl who had her door open. Yes, it’s awkward to meet so many people at once, but it paid off. By the end of the year, if I heard someone coming down the hall, I didn’t even have to look up without knowing it was someone I was friends with.
7. Only take classes you enjoy. In high school, you had to take certain classes because it looked impressive for colleges. Well, you got into college, so now take classes you enjoy! College is a time to find out what you want your career path to be, and you won’t find that out by taking classes that make you miserable. Take classes that challenge and interest you, and you’ll be much better off.
8. Keep in touch with friends from home. For me, “home” is 1,500 miles away in Easton, Conn. None of my friends visited me at school, and I never went home for weekends, but I still have plenty of high school friends that I love to catch up with when I’m home on break. College is a great way to meet new friends, but don’t forget about the old ones. I always called friends from home when walking to and from places on campus. Even if we just talked for ten minutes, it was nice to check in. Plus, TU has a great mail service, so take advantage of that and send letters and packages.
9. Prioritize. Remember why you’re at college. While you can learn a lot from sitting around talking to friends, you’re in college to get a degree. It’s important to budget your time well and study enough for your classes. You have so much more time in college than high school, but that time gets filled up quickly, so make sure you fill it with things that matter.
10. Spend some time sitting in front of the library. I feel spoiled because I can’t go to any other library without thinking about how much prettier McFarlin is. The front steps of our library are an amazing place with a fantastic view of downtown. In my opinion, there’s nothing better than taking a break sitting on the steps outside the library and watching a beautiful Oklahoma sunrise or sunset.
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